Rights of unmarried fathers
The rights and responsibilities of biological fathers who were not married to the child’s mother at the time of conception or birth can be uncertain. In this article, we will discuss when a biological father obtains rights and responsibilities towards their child(ren).
Alissa has a 7-year-old son called Jessie. Alissa had been living with her boyfriend, Mike, for 2 years when Jessie was born. Alissa and Mike were never married and Mike left their common home when Jessie was only 1 year old. Mike makes contact with Jessie and contributes some small amounts towards his maintenance every few months. Alissa would like to know what rights and responsibilities Mike has towards Jessie.
Section 20 of the Children’s Act (“the Act”) confers parental responsibilities and rights on married fathers if they are married to the child’s mother or if they were married at either the time of the child’s conception, birth or any time between conception and birth.
The biological father of a child who does not have parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child in terms of Section 20 of the Act can acquire these responsibilities and rights if one of the following conditions are fulfilled:
- at the time of the child’s birth he is living with the mother in a permanent life partnership; or
- if he consents to be identified; or
- he successfully applies in terms of Section 26 of the Act to be identified as the father; or
- he pays damages in terms of customary law; or
- if he contributes or has attempted in good faith to contribute to the child’s upbringing for a reasonable period; or
- if he has contributed or attempted in good faith to contribute towards expenses in connection with the maintenance of the child for a reasonable period.
It may be difficult to determine whether two persons are in a permanent life partnership or not. This term lacks a precise definition and has been described as “a stable monogamous relationship where a couple who do not wish to (or are not permitted to) marry, live together and share an intimate relationship” that is akin to marriage. The Constitutional Court has given limited recognition to the relationships labelled as “life partnerships” or “permanent life partnerships”, but no specific meaning has been attached to these terms.
It is important to note that this section applies regardless of whether the child was born before or after the commencement of this Act, and that it does not affect the duty of a father to contribute towards the maintenance of the child.
If there is a dispute between the biological father and the biological mother of a child with regard to the fulfillment by that father of the conditions set out above, the matter must be referred for mediation to a family advocate, social worker, social service professional or other suitably qualified person. Any party to the mediation may have the outcome of the mediation reviewed by a court.
From this article we can see that the only clear responsibility of Mike is that of paying maintenance to support Jessie. Due to the fact that the definition of a permanent life partnership is so vague, Mike and Alissa should refer this matter to one of the abovementioned mediators to obtain certainty about Mike’s rights and responsibilities towards Jessie.
This article is a general information sheet and should not be used or relied on as legal or other professional advice. No liability can be accepted for any errors or omissions nor for any loss or damage arising from reliance upon any information herein. Always contact your legal adviser for specific and detailed advice.
- The Children’s Act 38 of 2005
- Du Bois F, Willie’s Principle of South African Law (2007), 9th
 Section 21 of the Children’s Act 38 of 2005.
 Du Bois F, Willie’s Principle of South African Law (2007), 9th ed., p363.
 Section 21(2) of the Children’s Act 38 of 2005.
 Section 21(3) of the Children’s Act 38 of 2005.